Monday, January 1, 2018
Friday, December 22, 2017
OCTOBER COMMENTS FROM A VOLUNTEER NURSE
Here is a testimony
from the young nurse who just completed her Kowak service in October:
“While words can't quite capture the vast
array of experiences and emotions that I felt while in Kowak, I will do my
best. Traveling alone as a young, female, English-speaking college
graduate, I stared out the airplane window, partially questioning my sanity. I
had absolutely no idea what to expect- I didn't know if anyone would speak
English, if I would enjoy the food, or if I would be using the bush out back as
a bathroom. Fortunately for me, Kowak ended up being far better than
anything I could have imagined. As I maneuvered through the joys and
challenges of each day, I had to full-heartedly trust that God would guide me
through. While in Africa, I experienced some extreme highs: I looked at a
crowd of 150 students with eager eyes, wanting to learn more about ways to keep
themselves healthy, I saw sick and nearly lifeless children recover after receiving
antibiotics and blood transfusions, and I helped welcome dozens of babies
into the world. However, I also experienced some extreme lows: I watched
corpses being carried out on motorcycles, woke up to the sobs of a family
who had just lost a loved one, and I put my hands on the chest of a young
child, praying for the rise and fall of a breath that would never come. While
it’s extremely difficult to process and reconcile everything that I have seen
and experienced, there are some major takeaways that will forever shape the way
I live my life. First and foremost, I have learned that when you commit your
life to God, making yourself uncomfortable and vulnerable, He will always
provide for you. When you stop relying on yourself and your own understanding,
it allows God to do some pretty incredible things with your life. Surrendering
to God does not result in a boring and mundane life, it allows for a life
that is beautiful and exciting beyond imagine. A second takeaway, in relation
to mission work specifically, is that when you are willing to give, you receive
SO MUCH more in return. In choosing to give my time and energy, I gained
valuable nursing skills, I attained a better understanding of poverty and how
to advocate for those in need around the world, I received life-long
friendships, I was showered with love and hospitality from complete
strangers, I felt closer to God than I have in years. I left Africa in
tears, thanking God for an opportunity that many people don't get to have.
Tanzania has my heart and I can't wait to go back again someday. Asante sana
(thank you very much), Maryknoll!"
MARANDA MILLER
Thursday, December 21, 2017
BACK HOME FOR THE 2017 HOLIDAY AND MORE
I've been back in the US since mid
November after a short three months in Kowak. Christmas is just around the
corner so I’m working a little on the decorations, but mostly just visiting
family and friends since I returned about 6 weeks ago. I spent a few days
in Louisville and Atlanta visiting my son’s.
Kowak was a different experience this
year, mostly due to the absence of Fr Conard, who I lived with the last 11
years. It is unlikely that he will be allowed to return to Tanzania except,
perhaps, for a short goodbye visit next year. I have volunteered to escort him
through the airports, if and when he goes. As planned, I did work on his
finances this year to document where his money and the Maryknoll funds were
used the first six months of the year. He departed for Kenya and then New York
at the end of June.
I had planned to stay six months this year
but found there was not much work for me after I finished the financial
reports. As I mentioned in the last blog (August) we had a volunteer nurse
(Maranda) from Minnesota who arrived a couple weeks before me and she stayed
two months as planned. She was a real jewel and we had a lot of fun in the
school, hospital and surrounding villages. She worked every morning in the
hospital, mostly in the children's ward and then the afternoons at the girl’s
secondary school. She fell in love with the girls and them with her, so I
always knew where to find her in the afternoons.
We had the Silver Jubilee for the Kowak Girl’s
Secondary School a week after I arrived (Aug 26th) and the Form IV (seniors)
graduation Sept 30, so Maranda got to see the difference in an African vs US
graduation and meet some of parents of the graduates and their families. I took
video's of the Jubilee for Fr Conard and still photos of many of the 116
graduates for prints and for the school Facebook page.
We did have one sad event just a few weeks
after I arrived. One of the seniors died suddenly a few days before graduation.
Maranda and I were there when the 420 students were gathered and were given the
sad news. It was devastating, especially to the other seniors who had lost
another classmate just the year before, almost to the day. The student had been
fine until just a few days before she died. Maranda and I stayed up late that
night preparing memorial cards for the memorial Mass the next morning, just as
Therese McCarthy and I had done the year before. A few days later we attended
the funeral and burial at her grandmother’s home in Sirori Simba about two
hours from school. About 20 students and 10 school staff joined us. It was very
crowded and very sad.
Maranda and I made three other trips during
her stay. One was to a new English-medium primary school which had been built
last year buy my friend Fr Joel Marwa in his home village. It opened in January
to pre-schoolers, so we were invited to meet the 30 young students, teacher and staff and have lunch there. One week-end we spent the night in Musoma with my friend
Liz Mach who is our oldest Maryknoll Lay Missioner and is also a nurse from
Minnesota. She celebrated 41 years as a lay missioner in Tanzania so she and
Maranda had a lot to talk about. It was a fun week-end. The last trip was a
short one day tour of the Serengeti Park with Liz and Maranda. We did not see
as many animals as usual, but we did see a lot, and some unusually good looks
at several hyena, ostrich, many giraffe and a huge number of hippopotamus. It
was a fun day and night.
Maranda headed home
in mid October, after a sad goodbye to the students and hospital. I continued
to work with the new pastor, Fr Julius Ogolla, until mid November. During my
stay I met several other village students and one KGSS senior who needed
financial help, so I agreed to sponsor
them (5). Maranda and her parents also agreed to sponsor one of the sophomore
(Form II) students for the next two years. We also both contributed to the fund
raiser for the secondary school to help build a new assembly hall. I received
two donations from a couple in Colorado for soccer balls, volleyballs and
volleyball nets so I gave them to the secondary school and two village volleyball
men’s teams and one hospital women’s volleyball team. As usual I took a lot of
photo’s during this visit and distributed the photos. I distributed mosquito
nets and photos and rosaries to the hospital maternity patients as I have done
several years. I paid a few medical
bills including one for my older friend, Mzee Rya, who had cataract surgery after I left.
We had three very
nice visitors who stayed with us at Kowak Mission my last two weeks there.
Alesha was a graduate student from the Univ of Toronto; Editha was one of her
research assistants from Arusha, and Lameck was the other research assistant from
Mwanza. They were all very pleasant and fun to have around at meal time. Alesha
is working on her PhD for the next 3 months at Kowak and the final 3 months in
another village not far away. We have two American volunteers (Jay and Kathy) coming
in late January from Colorado to teach English for two months so I helped them make
the contacts before them arrive. Maybe I’ll meet them, if Fr Conard is allowed
to return while they are there.
I attended several
Masses in outstations with Fr Ogolla. One of them was for a blessing of the new
church in Miko which Fr Conard finished building just before he departed. I
took a nice video during that Mass and Blessing ceremony to show Fr Conard in
November. I stopped in New York on my way home and spent three days with Fr
Conard at the assisted living center (St Teresa’s) at Maryknoll. We had a very
nice visit and he was able to view my video’s with the help of Fr Dick Quinn,
Fr Conard’s first pastor in Africa. I also got to greet many of the older
Maryknoll priests I knew when they were in Africa.
Merry Christmas
ya’all
Saturday, August 19, 2017
MY ELEVENTH YEAR IN EAST AFRICA STARTED TODAY
I was just
reading my last blog from Nov 2 of how it might be my last trip to East Africa.
I wanted to spend the year home with family and friends for a change while I
had good health, but I made the mistake of reading a book called Being Mortal.
I also planned to attend the 55th reunion of my Chanute High School class in
September since I had missed the 50th and some classmates have died
since then. But the book convinced me of the importance of spending time with
the elderly in the last years of their lives and that is the case with our
Maryknoll pastor, Fr Conard, in his 87th year of life and 61st
year of mission in Tanzania. As it turned out I suspect this will be Fr Conard’s
last year in Tanzania.
I was also
attracted to return by the scheduled visits of two new sets of volunteers and
the potential return of one or two former Kowak volunteers. You read about them
in my last blog, I hope. The new
volunteers included a retired couple from Hawaii, the Shannons. They arrived in
mid-July and are scheduled to depart the mission today (Aug 19th),
so I will miss them. I certainly regret that but my return was delayed about
two weeks due to a sudden medical issue the day I was scheduled to depart. That
seems to be under control now. The other new volunteer is a new nursing
graduate that was scheduled to travel with me, so she had to travel alone which
I also regret, but God had other plans. Maranda arrived fine as scheduled. She’ll stay until mid-October, then I’m
hopeful to have a returning volunteer, Dr Jim, for two or three weeks. The
lovely Therese McCarthy has family issues which will keep her home this year
but we are praying for a better year and a visit next year.
It won’t be
the same without Fr Conard, of course and we are all praying he will recover
and return to Kowak soon. He fell during mass in mid-June and injured his back.
But the main problem now seems to be more mental and recognizing that he is
back in America for treatment. His back pain is under control and he is sleeping
well. I’ll be working on his financial reports for this year and his project
reports for Maryknoll project money that should all be spent now, since the
projects are mostly completed. My change of departure allowed me to schedule a visit to Maryknoll in NY to visit Fr Conard which I am so happy I did. He really needed me and others to cheer him up.
I’ve had a
wonderful visit in Kansas and around the country since I returned last
November. In addition to seeing my sons Adam and Kyle in Kentucky and Georgia
and their lovely wives and children, they came to visit me and the extended
family in June. It was a fun week. I traveled to Miami with Sr Barbara McCracken
for two weeks in February as we did the previous year. It was great to see Rose
Anderson and many of her friends again. Rose came to see me just two weeks ago
on her way home from a Colorado vacation so that was a fun surprise for my
going away party attended by 40 friends and family. I also received over $600 in gifts for mosquitos nets for the
new mothers at Kowak hospital.
Last April
I went to visit Vikki Smith in Salem, OR, for two weeks and meet many of her
friends. The scenery was wonderful but meeting her sisters and friends and
getting to visit the Mt Angel Abbey was a special treat. I also got to see our
friend Bertha Haas in Portland and my cousin Joyce and her husband and son in
Portland. A real treat was the fund raiser, Taste of Tanzania, for the handicapped
children’s school in Tanzania and getting to meet one of our former Kowak
volunteers, Patty Murphy, a retired PA in Portland. At the end of April and
early May I made one last two week trip to Utah with my friends the Johnson
brothers, David and Jim, to see several National Parks and visit former Kowak
volunteers, Henry and Jean who live in Salt Lake City. Jean escorted us through
the wonderful Natural History museum at the University of Utah and we three were
given use of their condo for a week in Moab, while we re-visited the parks in
that area. It was a wonderful trip with
a lot of video photography to enjoy when we got home. We topped off the trip
with a visit to the Trappist Monastery in Snow Mass, CO and an overnight in lovely Basalt nearby.
The last
two months of my home stay in June and July were spent at home and at church
with my contemplative prayer group and listening to wonderful spirituality
speakers like Sr Elia Delio who our group sponsored at Avila University in late
June. Most weekends were with family in my backyard swimming, playing lots of
croquet and watching the kids on the new swings and on the old trampoline. The
weather was great nearly every weekend so it made for a wonderful family
summer. Thanks you all.
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
FINAL DAYS IN EAST AFRICA 2016
My year in Tanzania has now come to an end
and it may well be my last for any long term work here. It has been a wonderful
10 plus years of mission work and I will miss it dearly. I will especially miss
the daily activities of Fr James who his just completing 60 years of mission
work in Tanzania, most of it at Kowak village parish. We had two wonderful American
volunteers these last few weeks which had made it even more enjoyable and eventful
that other periods; Therese McCarthy a teacher from AZ and Dr Goetz a medical
doctor from NY. We all just arrived in Nairobi on our way home.
Fr Jim went
home to NY and Green Bay again this year in early June to celebrate his 60
years as a priest so I took over a few small jobs of construction in June and
July. I could have done more but Fr Jim so enjoys these construction projects
and is much better at it than I am. Indeed he seemed to kick into high gear
after he returned and had his celebrations here with the local parish and again
with the diocese in August.
I continued
my daily projects of distributing mosquito nets, rosaries and photos to the new
mothers in the maternity wards and miscellaneous financial projects to keep the
money and materials and school fees flowing. I finished with distributing 150
nets and 200 rosaries at the hospital and another 50 nets to the secondary
school. The remaining 100 rosaries from Queen of the Holy Rosary went to people
in the parish.
Our
volunteers also brought many items to distribute and they donated over 700
mosquito bracelets to the secondary school students and staff and the hospital
staff. Doctor Jim also brought 10 home-made children’s dresses and 10 pair of
shorts which we distributed to needy children in the Alala village near Kowak.
They were all thrilled. I gave away several of my books and some reading
glasses to a few families that could read English and the clothes I was not
bringing home were also distributed just before I left.
Therese and
I made it into the Serengeti Park one last time after a stop to visit my friend,
Fr Joel Marwa, a young priest that I have helped over the years. He surprised
us by showing us the new primary school he is building in his home village. That
money came from donations he received during his ordination two years ago. I
helped with a significant contribution along with a Maryknoll priest that
helped him for many years after his parents died. This will be an English
medium school to help improve the education there in his home village. This is
badly needed all over Tanzania and many pastors are starting to do this since
young Kenya teachers are available in surplus at this time and their English is
much better than the Tanzania teachers.
The
Serengeti trip was more of an adventure than usual this time. There were more
than the usual number of animals due to the recent rainfalls and this being the
migration season from the north part of the park. But the real adventure started
when the car broke down about 40 miles from the park exit. The bad roads had
caused the radiator to break loose and start leaking. After it cooled down we had
to refill the radiator every ten minutes for the next two hours. We finally
made it out the gate at 6:30 pm as darkness fell, 30 minutes past the deadline
for closing the park. We went thru over ten gallons of water so we had to stop
twice to refill the water jug from a ditch along the road side. We spent the night at the gate hotel and the
hospital driver and mechanic came the next day to exchange vehicles so we could
drive home (2 hrs) while they made repairs.
A few days
ago Maryknoll sent a driver and vehicle to move us three and our luggage plus a
visiting priest, Larry Radice, back to Nairobi to catch our flights home. The
driver was 3 hours late arriving at the border so we got in pretty late after a
9 hour ride. Another volunteer nurse,
Rosemary Drew, arrives from Maryland on Nov 9 but we will all be gone by then.
I depart tonight and am really looking forward to seeing the family. Therese and
I had a couple days to kill so we spent one of them biking and hiking in a
small national park near just north of Nairobi called Hell’s Gate. It is the
only park that allows you to get out of your vehicle in all East Africa, I am
told.
Thursday, June 2, 2016
ESCORTING FR. CONARD TO NAIROBI
I arrived back in East Africa
on April 5 and have been in Kowak village in Tanzania since then. I escorted
our Maryknoll pastor, Fr Conard, to Nairobi on May 31st so he could
return to the Maryknoll Fathers headquarters and home to Green Bay. He will
celebrate his 60th year of priesthood at the end of June in New York and then
again with family in mid-July in Green Bay. We expect to see him back in Kowak
by Aug 5th. He will have a third celebration here on August 11 at
his parish where he has lived the last 38 years. He is the last of his 50+
ordination classmates to still work overseas. 12 are still alive, I believe.
I
want to thank my friends at our Tuesday Mystics prayer group in Kansas City for
their prayers and generous support of my ministry and the Maryknoll ministry at
Kowak hospital. They have given me over $500 for mosquito nets for newborn
babies and have given Fr Conard and the Kowak Hospital over $1,000 for needs
there. We were blessed to finally find and employ a young doctor on March 1,
Dr Lazaro Mwikwabe; he joins our older Dr Ernest in treating the local patients
in our area. We are especially blessed that he is from a village in our area
and we hope to keep him here for many years. He is 30 yrs old and was just
married in February to a lovely young lady, Devota, who is also from our area
(Tarime). She just got her BA degree in Human Resources a few years ago. Our new doctor is being trained by Dr Ernest
in surgery and he has already done 45 surgeries in his first three months. We are
averaging two major surgeries per day and about half of those are C sections. We
average another 4 minor surgeries per day so the doctors keep very busy. We
also have a large number of x rays and ultra sounds. Dr Ernest does all the
ultra sounds. Sr Linet does the x rays.
The
Queen of the Holy Rosary parish in Mission, KS gave me 300 more rosaries
to distribute among the local people and I have been doing that as well as
distributing nets to new mothers. I have been concentrating primarily on mothers
of new born babies at our hospital where we are averaging two births per day.
In addition to the net and rosary I take their photo and give them a copy of
it. They are very pleased. So far I have given out 31 nets in the last two
weeks. One of my first mothers had triplets which thrilled us all, especially
being the first triplets in many years at Kowak. Since she already had 7
children at home I gave her 4 nets. The following week another mother had twins
so I gave her two nets. The young girl in this photo is the daughter of this
mother of triplets and she is very attractive. You can see the babies usually are
born much lighter in complexion.
Our 170 bed rural hospital was recently awarded a Three
Star rating by the national health survey which makes us at least equal to the
District Government Hospital in this area. The best hospitals can achieve a
Five Star rating.
In addition to the daily visits to the hospital I have
spent a lot of time on the computer entering the financial data generated since
I departed in November. I finally issued a 4th quarter, 1st
quarter and partial 2nd quarter report for Fr Conard so he could
make decisions on what money is available for repairs and construction over the
next two months while he is on home leave. I also prepared a budget for next year since
he had to request money from Maryknoll by mid-May. We have about 4 projects
totaling $24,000 that was requested. I
have been given two or three smaller projects to work on in addition to the
routine repairs in the two months Fr Jim is home. We also hope to purchase a
small lorry next year to haul medicines from Mwanza, four hours south. We
recently got news that one foundation in Minnesota will give us $10,000 over
their normal donation next year.
One of my least pleasant projects recently was the
termination of our grinding mill operator who we have employed the last two
years. I had to find a new operator and train him for the last three weeks
before terminating Kurwa. Lawrence has good references and a lot of experience
so I hope he works out. This is a difficult job mostly due to the temptations
with handling money in a very poor area.
Fr Conard just finished construction of a large church
about 18 km from our parish. We had a lovely mass and church blessing last
week-end (Corpus Christi Sunday) and I took a video of it for him to take home.
I just burned a few DVD’s for him and friends. I am also working on a video of
the Kowak Girls Secondary senior class (Form IV). The teachers are doing most
of this work and it will also be about an hour long. This DVD will be a gift to
my friends, Henry and Jeanne in Salt Lake City, who volunteered at the school
here in early 2013 when these girls were freshman and just learning English.
Three years makes a big difference and I think they will enjoy seeing them “grown
up”.
I just finished reading a wonderful biography of Pope
Francis called “The Great Reformer”. It talks a lot about his love of the poor
and his joy of being with the poor of Argentina. It has really helped me
understand why I enjoy being here, especially these last two or three years
where I have been able to get to know the locals versus the wealthier teachers
and secondary students of previous years. The poor really have solidarity and
enjoy the very simple things that most of us take for granted. Some of their
biggest celebrations are funerals, masses and football games. We have had a lot
of all three in recent months. I wish
you could see the joy they had in this blessing of their new church last
week-end; such joyful singing and dancing during the gift giving. It was a real
mix of young and old but everyone enjoying the “celebration” of the mass. In
many ways similar to the joy they express during the local soccer games next to
my house. I heard a local recently at one of the almost daily games, who had
come home for the weekend. He was telling his friends how lucky they were to
get to see these games so frequently for free where he had to pay significantly
to see a game in the city of players he hardly knew.
Speaking of sports, I have really been enjoying the
amazing KC Royals games these last ten days on espn gamecast on my smart phone
(3:15 am to 6:15 am). The come-from-behind victories remind me so much of the
attitude and skills they demonstrated last year in the post season. This year’s
rookies have been super, Thank God. We really needed them due to so many
injuries of our top players. I do miss
those games with the family drinking beer on the back porch.
Wednesday, November 4, 2015
HEADING HOME FOR THE WINTER
It’s hard to believe it’s been 4
months since my last update. I’m been at the Kowak Mission since late April and
am now heading home in a few hours for the winter in Kansas City.
What a wonderful year I’ve had at
Kowak. It was so different from previous years because I got to meet many of
the people in our village and go to their homes to delivery mosquito nets and
rosaries (donated by friends and students from Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish)
and take their photos. In my spare time on weekends I would walk around for
exercise by visiting some of these same areas and having a smart phone with
camera I was always being asked for pictures. I would then return the following
weekend to deliver the photos. Most had never seen a picture of themselves, of
course, so they were thrilled. Fortunately, getting photos developed is very
cheap now and only an hour away.
Since I last wrote I went to
Kitale, Kenya with our visiting PA, Kathy Dunford to escort her on her way back
home. I also wanted to see the Korb’s from the KC area and our long term Maryknoll
Lay Missioners Russ Brine and John O’Donohue. We just missed the Korb’s as John’s
mother passed away a few days before we arrived. But we had a grand time with
John O and Russ and saw lots of Kathy’s friends from her previous hospital and
health care jobs. I got several ideas from the head of the hospital (an Indian
sister) about things to help our hospital, like odor control powder for the
toilets and a unique water filtration system using a clay pot made of American
design.
Kathy and I had gone up on a new
mini bus (12 passenger) system and it was quick (8 hrs) and easy, so I took it
home. On the way up to Kenya I forgot to lock my luggage zippers so lost
several computer cords due to sticky fingers. Kathy also lost some money but
was not sure how. No problem coming home and the scenery is beautiful in this
southwest section of Kenya with many hills and tea plantations. We had lots of
good food in Kitale and got entertained by Russ’s primary school students. They
are former street children. What a great program he has there.
Fr Conard returned at the end of July
from 3 months of home leave. He visited all three brothers around the country
and Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Rochester who donates so generously for our
hospital support. He immediately started working on building an outdoor area
next to the rectory for the big Jubilee Mass for all the priests and sisters of
our diocese. It was an all-day event as we had to feed most of the 1,000 in
attendance. It is supposed to be at another parish next year but we are pushing
the bishop to have it back at Kowak next year since it will be Fr Conard’s 60th
anniversary as a priest.
I made one last trip to Mwanza, our
second largest city 4 hours south, to shop for medicine and a few items with
our car mechanic, to get some repairs done and to buy a LaserJet color printer
for the hospital. We hauled a crankshaft down for grinding and picked it up the
next day. I arranged to have the medicines boxed up and waiting at the door for
pick-up the next morning at two different pharmacies. I also arranged for the
large color printer to be delivered to my hotel that evening to save me time
finding parking space the next day to pick it up. So it was a very successful trip with no
punctures (flats) or breakdowns.
Of course the highlight of this
last month was the wonderful baseball post-season the KC Royals had, culminating
in the World Series Championship. Wow! What a team and what a season. Sure wish
my twin brother had been alive to enjoy it as much as we did last year. I’m
looking forward to returning home now to catch the end of those celebrations
tomorrow night. I was on the bus Monday by 8 a.m. and headed to Nairobi during
the last game so my friend Liz Mach was watching the game at home and texting
me with the scores, inning by inning. Thank God she is a big sports fan. I feel
very blessed.
Tom
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